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Stephan Riedlberger - Arbeit mit Entwicklungstraumata in München. Soziotherapeutische Begleitung

NARM trauma work with developmental trauma in Munich, Stephan Riedlberger

I offer sociotherapeutic support and coaching, trauma-informed, resource-oriented and NARM trauma work with developmental trauma in Munich. For people who suffer psychologically as a result of developmental trauma and attachment disorders.

Symptoms resulting from this can be:

social isolation, anxiety, depression, lack of energy, feelings of powerlessness, feelings of shame and guilt, crises of meaning, life crises, disorientation, inner instability, stagnation, avoidance behavior. Or recurring destructive life patterns such as exhaustion or burnout and destructive relationships.

Find more information about my work on the following pages.

Arrange an initial consultation so that we can get to know each other and to coordinate your needs and concerns with my offer.

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We are never really cut off from our source. We are only cut off from awareness of our source.

| Laurence Heller

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Please get in contact with me.

Symptoms resulting from this can be:

Find more information about my work on the following pages.

Arrange an initial consultation so that we can get to know each other and to coordinate your needs and concerns with my offer.

+++++

We are never really cut off from our source. We are only cut off from awareness of our source.

| Laurence Heller

Please get in contact with me.

We are never really cut off from our source. We are only cut off from awareness of our source.

| Laurence Heller

Quick information

Developmental trauma

… is the reaction to a long-term experience of unattuned or lacking attachment, emotional or psychological failure or emotional or psychological violence by attachment figures …

Developmental trauma

Developmental trauma

… We experience developmental trauma before birth or in our first years, when we are completely dependent on our attachment figures for our safety and well-being. These traumas affect our development on a physical, emotional, cognitive and social level.

The baby or young child reacts to persistent frustration of early childhood needs, emotional or psychological violence with protest. If this is not met and the baby does not experience any permanent security, love or satisfaction of needs, it feels anger and rage. A core dilemma arises: the baby or young child wants to love and bond with its attachment figures. At the same time, it is let down by them, abused, punished or not seen in what it needs.

In order to survive in the field of attachment figures and to be able to maintain the bond with them, the baby/young child must separate itself from the feelings of anger and rage. She directs the anger against herself (acting out). She is shaming herself and hates herself just for being there or for being as she is.

This reaction we call the core developmental trauma. Attachment is prior to authenticity. An early pattern is formed here: „I have to be a good child.“ Or: „I always have to do something to be loved.“ Or: „I always have to be different than I am.“ These self-optimization strategies are often adopted and perfected into adulthood.

Agency

Agency – Power to Act in NARM™ we understand this not as kind of an external action. It is more an internal attitude. This includes the intention: What drives me to act? …

Informations to the meaning of Agency

Agency

… Agency includes the insight that what we thought was reality is shaped by unconscious identifications and strategies that we developed to deal with early stressful experiences. And what relationship we have with ourselves and those around us in the here and now.

If we have experienced failures in our environment in early life, we have learned to blame ourselves and hate ourselves. If unresolved developmental trauma affect us, we have difficulty listening to ourselves, knowing ourselves and regulating ourselves. We can experience deep hopelessness and helplessness. And react more rigid to experiences in our lives, such as relationship problems or difficulties in social situations and at work.

Agency fosters coming into contact with what has been experienced in the here and now (adult consciousness) and weakens the strategies of cutting oneself off from contact (child consciousness). The client is given the chance to find a way of dealing with themselves that is more based on self-acceptance, self-care and compassion for oneself. One could say that self-awareness from the adult perspective changes. From „It‘s happening to me“ to „I‘m doing something with myself.“

Agency also means developing an independent awareness of our authentic self, independent of external values, expectations and opinions. Agency can be seen as the fuel for the possibility of acting and finding answers to life‘s challenges.
(Adapted from Heller, Kammer)

Persönlichkeit wachsen, Trauma überwinden.

Healing

In my understanding, healing is a process and a recurring cycle, the core of which is the restoration of contact with oneself, split-off parts and their reintegration. It is also linked to the restoration of core energy…

Informations to the meaning of Healing

Healing

… In NARM™, this process includes the following steps: Exploring identity -> dissolving an identification based on shame, guilt and externally adopted values -> restoring the connection to core needs and abilities -> restoring contact and vitality.

These steps enable increasing awareness of our survival strategies and foster the ability to be aware of our own body, its sensations and movements. This „somatic mindfulness“ enables gradual release of states of rigidity from the past in the coaching setting and supports -> increasing regulation and presence -> increasing contact with the body -> growing self-regulation ability.

As we regain more contact with ourselves, become more authentic, and our capacities for sensing, feeling, intuition, creativity and flexibility slowly grow, we can also gradually enter into more authentic relationships with people (and all living beings, nature).

NARM trauma work with developmental trauma in Munich, Stephan Riedlberger

Symptoms resulting from this can be:

Find more information about my work on the following pages.

Symptoms resulting from this can be:

Find more information about my work on the following pages.

We are never really cut off from our source. We are only cut off from awareness of our source.

| Laurence Heller

Quick information

Developmental trauma

Agency

Healing

Heilung

Agency – Handlungsmacht

Was ist ein „Entwicklungstrauma“?